I am not particularly a fan of Mr. Aiken or the music he performs; however, I do recognize his talent and am glad for him that he has found success with it. Regarding his sexuality, I think I would join the majority of his fans in proclaiming, "Who cares?" I don't recall him making a big issue about it. Regarding his sexual activities, I would add "Mind your own business," and ask you to show some respect for the privacy of this individual in the same manner that you would demand it for non-celebrities who are similarly exploited by the media or others. Otherwise, you simply damage your own credibility on matters of actual importance.