If you, too, are looking for love in all the wrong places, help is on the way. Em & Lo (pictured below), dating advice columnists the country's in love with, make a stop in Raleigh, Tuesday, Aug. 12. Known to friends as Emma Taylor and Lorelei Sharkey, the affair is a provocative one--the duo's column "Em & Lo Down," runs in papers from Miami to Los Angeles, and sites from Salon to The Onion. Not to mention, 30 million people use the personals at Nerve.com, which Em & Lo call home. They'll be dispensing sage advice and signing copies of their new book--which could only be called The Big Bang--at the posh Glenwood wine bar, April & George, from 8-10 p.m. Never mind the advice, that's a date in and of itself. Call the bar at 828-9082 for details.